I love the start of the new year. I actually love new year’s resolutions (otherwise known as “intentions” in the world of mindfulness). The new year feels like an opportunity for a fresh start and I love fresh starts. I love mornings, birthdays, season changes, and new years because they are filled with the possibility for positive change. I love to see what unfolds with the passage of time. Of course, positive change cannot occur without a little planning (have I mentioned I am a Virgo and I love planning? Creating a to-do list and organizing my calendar is a magical experience as far as I am concerned).
So how do we do that (you know, in a fun and not tedious way that everyone would like, not just a Virgo)? With a little exercise known in my house as….Rose. Thorn. Seed.
Let me explain.
Rose = favorite part of the day (week; month; season; year).
Thorn = least favorite part of the day (week; month; season; year).
Seed = a thought or idea you want to plant for tomorrow (next week; next month; next season; next year).
It can be done daily, weekly, monthly, seasonally. It can also be great on Birthdays and of course, New Years. All of the Above!
You can do Rose. Thorn. Seed by yourself with a pen and paper, mentally over a glass of wine or cup of tea, or verbally with a partner, friend, or your whole family. We do this exercise over dinner every night in my family. We also do it for birthdays with friends and on new year’s eve (which is also my husband’s birthday) reflecting on the whole year and looking into the next.
My husband and I started this when we lived in Brooklyn, before kids. We were both in school and working two jobs and never saw each other. We led completely different lives. I was doing acupuncture, teaching yoga, working as a nanny and dancing, while he was working with computers, making Facebook video games and working on an Off Broadway show. I had as little insight into his world as he did mine. By checking in each day with our Rose. Thorn. Seed it sparked dialogue about things we would otherwise fail to mention about our day. We had been together since college and I started learning new things about this man.
Rose. Thorn. Seed. is also a great exercise to do when you are looking to make a change in your life but feeling unsure about what or how you want to change. A lot of the time we know we aren’t happy or satisfied but don’t know why. By writing down your Rose. Thorn. Seed. daily for a few weeks it is likely you will begin to see a pattern in your likes and dislikes. This is a great tool to help you pinpoint what you want to change. It is a way to get to know yourself better and create changes that will help you live a more inspiring, happy life.
Stay tuned for more on Rose. Thorn. Seed.
Join me on this journey for an acupuncture/yoga workshop at InsideOut Body Therapies that will help put these ideas into play.
Happy New Year everyone!